How can I say this? It is going to be hard.  It is going to come out so I guess I need to be the one to say it….I think I’m a fraud. Maybe I’m being too hard on myself.  It isn’t like I stole anything or deliberately tried or tried to deceive people. It wasn’t that cheated someone or swindled someone out of their life savings. I don’t pad my bra (that is obvious), lie about my age or hide my feelings.  I am one who believes that withholding the truth is the same as lying. But sometimes ignorance about something may look like you areRead More →

It has happened…I have reached that age where high school reunions become important.  It isn’t like the first high school reunion where you go mostly to see who got fat and who has the hottest wife/husband.  You side eye the gal who was flat chested who now has a huge upper hemisphere and notice the guy who won’t take off that baseball cap. You inquire about family, jobs and kids and feel a mixture of joy and jealousy.  (That reads pretty horrible but it is kind of true.) As you get older and mature, reunions get a little different.  You don’t go into with pettiness, youRead More →

A girl’s best friend can be a lot of things.  It can be someone you’ve known for years who knows who you are and where you’ve been. It can be relative who you find easy to talk to and who is willing to hold your hand through good times and bad ones. It can even be a big furry dog who sits by your side and never says anything but is a good listener.  And I have to mention the infamous saying that a diamond is a girl’s best friend.  But what about a cookie? Can a cookie be your best friend?  Given what they charge forRead More →